{"id":19,"date":"2017-08-09T18:08:51","date_gmt":"2017-08-09T18:08:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/?p=19"},"modified":"2017-08-09T18:11:57","modified_gmt":"2017-08-09T18:11:57","slug":"hogyan-tegyunk-egy-beszelgetest-izgalmassa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/hogyan-tegyunk-egy-beszelgetest-izgalmassa\/","title":{"rendered":"Hogyan tegy\u00fcnk egy besz\u00e9lget\u00e9st izgalmass\u00e1?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v. 1.5.8 -->\n<div class=\"quads-location quads-ad1\" id=\"quads-ad1\" style=\"float:none;margin:10px 0 10px 0;text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\n<!-- anotalk blog resp -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7970686267771938\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"4496886439\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p>Tal\u00e1n az els\u0151 \u00e9s legfontosabb dolog, hogy ne \u00fagy ind\u00edtsunk, hogy\u00a0\u201eSzia, kor?\u201d. \u00c9rthet\u0151, hogy \u00e9rdekel, a chat partnered h\u00e1ny \u00e9ves, viszont sokkal st\u00edlusosabb, k\u00fcl\u00f6nlegesebb, nem pedig \u00e1tlagos els\u0151 mondatok is l\u00e9teznek. Az els\u0151 benyom\u00e1s nagyon fontos\u00a0\u2013 ha nem a legfontosabb, a j\u00f3 besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s megalapoz\u00f3ja \u2013, ne hagyjuk, hogy a k\u00edv\u00e1ncsis\u00e1gunk \u00e1tvegye egy ilyen fontos dolog szerep\u00e9t. Ha semmik\u00e9ppen nem b\u00edrsz magaddal, m\u00e9g mindig st\u00edlusosabb egy\u00a0\u201eSzia! 16 \u00e9ves vagyok. Te? :)\u201d kezd\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9n magam azonban egy\u00e1ltal\u00e1n nem ind\u00edtan\u00e9k olyan k\u00e9rd\u00e9ssel, ami a korra ir\u00e1nyul. Nyilv\u00e1nval\u00f3an <a href=\"http:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/tarskereso-e-az-anotalk\/\">t\u00f6bb c\u00e9lb\u00f3l is haszn\u00e1lhatjuk az AnoTalk-ot<\/a>, amelyek k\u00f6nnyen meghat\u00e1rozhatj\u00e1k, mennyire \u00e9rdekel, h\u00e1ny \u00e9ves a m\u00e1sik, \u00e9n viszont hiszem, hogy egy izgalmas, v\u00e1ratlan, ak\u00e1r vicces els\u0151 mondat sokkal nagyobb hat\u00e1ssal lehet a m\u00e1sik szem\u00e9lyre, mint egy sablonos, megszokott, m\u00e1r unalmas k\u00e9rd\u00e9s. Az\u00e9rt is j\u00f3 \u00edgy kezdeni, mert ha a m\u00e1sik szem\u00e9ly \u00e9rt\u00e9keli a te szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9gedhez tartoz\u00f3 els\u0151 mondatot, nem pedig \u00e9rtetlen\u00fcl kil\u00e9p a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9setekb\u0151l, m\u00e1r egy l\u00e9p\u00e9ssel k\u00f6zelebb vagytok egym\u00e1s meg\u00e9rt\u00e9s\u00e9hez, amely n\u00e9ha ink\u00e1bb m\u00falik a k\u00e9t szem\u00e9ly szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9g\u00e9n, mintsem \u00e9letkorukon.<\/p>\n<!-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v. 1.5.8 -->\n<div class=\"quads-location quads-ad1\" id=\"quads-ad1\" style=\"float:none;margin:10px 0 10px 0;text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\n<!-- anotalk blog resp -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7970686267771938\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"4496886439\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"832\" height=\"497\" class=\" wp-image-20 aligncenter\" style=\"width: 95%;\" src=\"http:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv1.png 832w, https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv1-300x179.png 300w, https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv1-768x459.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 832px) 100vw, 832px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ez egy j\u00f3 besz\u00e9lget\u00e9snek indul! M\u00e1ris van k\u00f6z\u00f6s t\u00e9ma, \u00e9s hab\u00e1r nem egym\u00e1sr\u00f3l besz\u00e9lgettek, m\u00e9gis rengeteg dolog kider\u00fclhet a m\u00e1sikr\u00f3l. Tal\u00e1n sokkal t\u00f6bb, mintha megk\u00e9rdezed t\u0151le, milyen szem\u00e9lyis\u00e9ge van. Az \u00edr\u00e1si st\u00edlusa, \u00e9rvei, gondolatai rengeteget el\u00e1rulnak.<\/p>\n<p>Fontos, hogy a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s k\u00f6zben figyelj\u00fcnk a m\u00e1sikra, de magunkra is. Ne csak magunkr\u00f3l besz\u00e9lj\u00fcnk, de ne is terelj\u00fck mindig a t\u00e9m\u00e1t arra, hogy a partner\u00fcnk besz\u00e9ljen mag\u00e1r\u00f3l. B\u00edzzunk benne, hogy mindk\u00e9t felet egyar\u00e1nt \u00e9rdekli a m\u00e1sik. Igyekezz\u00fcnk a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9st feldobni izgalmas r\u00e9szekkel. Ne hagyjuk, hogy a besz\u00e9lget\u00e9s unalmass\u00e1 v\u00e1ljon, az egyik f\u00e9lnek sem lenne j\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Igyekezz\u00fcnk pozit\u00edvak lenni a m\u00e1sikkal szemben, ezen ak\u00e1r a hangulatjelek is seg\u00edthetnek.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"833\" height=\"411\" class=\"size-full wp-image-25 aligncenter\" style=\"width: 95%;\" src=\"http:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv2.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv2.png 833w, https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv2-300x148.png 300w, https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/at-conv2-768x379.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 833px) 100vw, 833px\" \/><\/p>\n\n<!-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v. 1.5.8 -->\n<div class=\"quads-location quads-ad1\" id=\"quads-ad1\" style=\"float:none;margin:10px 0 10px 0;text-align:center;\">\n<script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\n<!-- anotalk blog resp -->\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\n     style=\"display:block\"\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-7970686267771938\"\n     data-ad-slot=\"4496886439\"\n     data-ad-format=\"auto\"><\/ins>\n<script>\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<div style=\"font-size:0px;height:0px;line-height:0px;margin:0;padding:0;clear:both\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tal\u00e1n az els\u0151 \u00e9s legfontosabb dolog, hogy ne \u00fagy ind\u00edtsunk, hogy\u00a0\u201eSzia, kor?\u201d. \u00c9rthet\u0151, hogy \u00e9rdekel, a chat partnered h\u00e1ny \u00e9ves,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tippek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27,"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19\/revisions\/27"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/anotalk.hu\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}